Metaphor-building games
CostLow
Includes: notebook and pen, DIY word jars, or a deck like Metaphor Dice Example: Metaphor Dice costs about €25–40; DIY options are nearly free.
What it is
Comparison is not decoration laid on top of plain language. It is how the mind thinks in the first place. Cognitive scientists have shown that abstract ideas, time, argument, emotion, are understood almost entirely through physical metaphors we no longer notice, like time running out or a heated debate. Metaphor-building games are playful exercises that take that hidden machinery and make it deliberate, challenging you to forge fresh comparisons on the spot. Describe jealousy as a kitchen appliance. Explain the internet as a weather system.
The games take many shapes. One person names two unrelated things and you must connect them in a single vivid image. A group goes round building an extended metaphor, each adding a line that develops the comparison further. You take a tired cliché and rebuild it from scratch into something that actually surprises. The common thread is forcing connections between things that do not obviously belong together, which is exactly the cognitive move that creativity research keeps identifying as central to original thought.
The honest difficulty is that good metaphors resist effort. Strain too hard and you get something clever but dead, a comparison that announces its own cleverness. The best ones arrive sideways, often funny, when you stop trying to be profound and just notice an odd genuine likeness. That unforced quality is hard to teach, but the games train the underlying habit of looking for unexpected resemblance, and that habit bleeds usefully into writing, explaining, and thinking generally.
How it works
Going in, accept that the good ones cannot be forced, which changes how you play. Strain too hard for profundity and you get something clever but dead, a comparison that announces its own cleverness. The best metaphors arrive sideways, often funny, when you stop reaching for deep and just notice an odd genuine likeness. So the games are designed to generate volume and surprise rather than to extract one perfect line, and you play them loose, fast, and a little silly.
The core game is forced connection. Someone names two unrelated things, jealousy and a kitchen appliance, the internet and a weather system, and you have to build the bridge in a single vivid image. Speed helps here, because it bypasses the inner critic that kills the playful, unexpected connections. Pull two random nouns from a hat, or have a partner throw pairs at you, and answer before you have time to overthink. The first slightly-wrong answer is often better than the third carefully-correct one.
Another version builds an extended metaphor in a group, each person adding a line that develops the comparison further. If life is a river, the next person adds the rapids, the next the stagnant pools, the next the question of who is steering. This stretches a single image to its limits and is harder than it sounds, because the metaphor has to keep making sense as it grows. A third version takes a dead cliché, time is money, and rebuilds it into something that actually surprises.
The underlying skill, finding unexpected resemblance between unlike things, is exactly what creativity research keeps identifying as central to original thought, and it transfers. People who play these games regularly find their writing, explaining, and teaching get sharper, because they have trained the habit of reaching for a concrete image to carry an abstract idea. The games are the gym. The payoff shows up everywhere you use language.
Benefits
What you need
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FAQs
A game where you generate fresh comparisons, often by pairing two unrelated things and forcing a link. "Grief is a ___." "The internet is like a ___." You push past the first obvious answer to something stranger and truer. It trains the part of the mind that makes original connections rather than reaching for tired phrases.
Yes. Building metaphors sharpens how you think and write, because a good metaphor compresses a complex idea into something instantly felt. It is also how understanding often happens, by mapping the unfamiliar onto the familiar. Practising it deliberately makes your explanations clearer and your writing less flat, not just your party tricks better.
Force yourself to write five more after the obvious one. The first metaphor is almost always a cliché your brain reaches for on autopilot, "busy as a bee", "cold as ice". The interesting ones live at numbers four, five, and six, once the tired stock has been used up and you are genuinely improvising.
Yes, and it sparks better than it does solo. One good format is everyone secretly writing a metaphor for the same prompt, then reading them out, the contrast between how differently people connect the same two things is half the fun. Another is the chain version, where each person must build a metaphor using the last word of the previous one, which keeps it moving and slightly absurd.